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Thursday, 6 August 2015

 Communicating With Your Spouse :

Hello my dear bloggers.Today I just want to talk about technology and relationships generally.
To start with,technology is the in-thing now,we all have access to social media,the internet and so on but how does it connect to our relationships.

I was in a gathering sometime ago and there was a discussion that came up about social issues .When asked to contribute,we all talked ,everyone was talking about it ,one of the audience seated there was also trying to contribute to the talk,when suddenly his wife cut in and asked him"Why didn't you tell me about this one too?".We were surprised,i guess some people were of this thought that,*Is this woman not in town?*.Well, another issue came up and we forgot about the incident.But there was a lesson to be learnt there.She couldn't have spit up such statement without having a reason behind it.Maybe she was not informed or rarely didn't have time to look up the internet! It's like that everywhere!.Wives and Husbands go to their different jobs daily and don't have some minutes to spare to gist about anything.We are caught up with one thing or the other.You don't have to be like this every time.

Lesson:

Talk to your spouse about new things you see,you watch or read about on the internet.Our mothers are always working,never tired to forget to clean the home or take care of the kids,so also our fathers too,working hard to make sure everyone is happy There is little or no time to discuss something funny!So when there is an opportunity to,do not hesitate to.You would be glad you did.

In conclusion,I have learnt to  abstain from social media gist alone,we too as a person are live wires of sociability,a short story or joke can bring out much life from your spouse than you can think of.A happy home filled with the love of God has Effective Communication.

God Bless You.

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